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You deserve a relationship that is vibrant, passionate, and fulfilling.

And—even more importantly?

You deserve to live the life you’ve been dreaming of, as the confident woman you’re capable of becoming (and the brilliant person you already are).

The good news is…

You can have both

Are you ready to reignite your relationship and create the loved-up life you crave?


I’m Mariette West, the mojito-loving relationship coach behind Reconnecting to Me, my signature program for women who want a love that lights them up and a life they’re excited about living.

My mission is to ensure that every woman has the tools, skills and insights she needs to never settle again.

Your vibrant life is waiting for you. If you’re ready to claim it, I’m here to help you make it happen.

What women are saying:

"Working with Mariette changed my life in an incredible way.

She gave me the gift of being able to look at things from a different perspective and embrace each moment. In her warm and safe way, she helped me peel back the layers and look inward, so I could move forward in my life and relationship in a positive way.”


"Mariette is a total professional, non-judgemental and had the patience to be present with me, no matter what came up.

I was able to trust the process of working with her, no matter how stuck I felt. Now, I have the tools I need to navigate my relationship with skill and truly see myself for who I am and who I can become.”


"Mariette knows when to challenge you and when to listen.

She provided a safe and trusting space for me to be myself, even when it was so hard. Rather than telling me what to do, she gave me the freedom, space, and guidance I needed to find those “aha moments” within myself — and now I have more trust and confidence in myself than ever.”


Stories, advice and tools for creating the loved-up life you deserve:

When the Going Gets Tough ~~ How to Stay Inspired on Hard Days

I’m sure that you are well aware that the path you are on to finally having the relationship you want is going to be a tough one. That’s why you’re here on this blog, am I right? Want to know how hard it is?  Here are some stats (United States) (Canada): 38% – 45% of…
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How To Make This The Year You Love Your Relationship Again.

It’s 2019! Can you believe it? Don’t you hate it when people say that? It’s kind of repetitive because most people say it every year. “I can’t believe it’s a new year.”   We make big goals. We have big plans. We go to crowded gym classes and buy piles of dieting books. We vow…
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Know Someone who wants to Uplevel their Life or Relationship? Check out my Favourite Books

Looking for some gift for the people in your life who love self-help books? Here are some of my favourites: All books by Martha Beck. The Joy Diet is one I keep coming back to again and again because it provides the steps for the way to live consciously, authentically and as the creator of…
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Feeling stuck in love & life? I’ll show you where to start

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